Love marriages and their bitter outcome

Love marriages and their bitter outcome

In our country, most love marriages turn into hate divorces, but still there are many loves and divorces going on. It seems that the journey from love to hate is a marriage.  How strange that if a boy and a girl fall in love with each other, their love decreases day by day instead of increasing?  Feeling tired of each other.

 What is the reason that the beginning of love is beautiful and the end is terrible ???  After all, why do those who claim to die for each other go so far as to kill each other ??? The reason is very simple.

 Bulbul's child also ate porridge, drank water and sang songs, but when he was blown away, he never came back.  Because love comes from freedom, not from imprisonment.  We have the reverse calculation.

 As soon as a boy falls in love with a girl, a strange kind of imprisonment begins.

 The orders of the girls are as follows:

 Now that we are in love with each other, consult me ​​on everything and call me for at least five minutes. If I miss a call, call me back immediately.

 Send me a romantic message on Facebook every day. Boys' orders are something like this.

 Honey! Don't dare to talk to any of your cousins. When buying clothes, just buy the color of my choice. Promise that if there is fire in your house but still you will definitely answer my message. Don't go out for shopping too much. I don't like it.

 "Early days, imprisonment looks to be very intoxicating." But as the days pass by, the orders from both sides become more and more, first duty, then stubbornness and then ego.

 And then they start to hate.  At the same time, if a boy or a girl gets married, the deficit will be met.  In my personal opinion, love is the name of the game.

 But we make it a hotbed of trouble.  Consider we create conveniences for those we love everywhere, "We cut our stomachs for our child's better future and pay for it". Even if they have to go hungry, they bring food for their children. When the light goes out, they ruin their sleep in the middle of the night.

 We are as honest as we can be, but if we have to recommend our child, we put all the rules above the odds. These are all the facilities we are giving to our family because we love them.  In the same way, when love between a boy and a girl begins, it starts easily ...

 And it is these conveniences that lead to love. But when hardships and duties begin to take shape, love begins to take the form of a barricade. In love, duty cannot be given.

 But love becomes a full time duty in our country, not answering messages on time, not answering anyone's phone, not meeting for many days.

 When any one of these things happens, the lovers exchange poisonous phrases while exchanging complaint phrases and from here the journey of return begins.  When no one is ready to make things easy for anyone, love begins to shrink. I said no.

 The name of love is to create ease. We also create ease for our friends whom we love. Since Allah Almighty loves His servants, He also creates ease for them.  ۔  I don't like those who are caught in love at all. Love is not released ... release from tension ... release from loneliness ... release from despair.

 But in our society, as soon as there is love, the tension doubles and both parties become mentally ill.  that is why love begins but does not fully develop.  But where love is in the form of real love, it not only grows but also doubles day and quadruples night.

 Our tragedy is that in our case, love refers only to sexual intercourse. It may be a part of love, but the whole love does not revolve around it.  No one will call the hand as Aslam. Aslam will be called the one who has the limbs connected.

 Anyway, how can it look like that all love depends on a few moments of friendship.  Love is not a prison, there are no remittances, there is no prison, there is no closed room, there is no call room ...

 Love is an open field where there are no fences, no barbed wire and no high walls.  Do your research and see that where love has failed, the reasons will be the same problems.  Everyone shows their love and the other scolds again and again that you don't love me.  People say that love does not go away.

 A small bud of love must sprout in the heart, but it takes a lot to make it a strong tree.  That love can never be successful where there are complaints and taunts. Such people are unfortunate. Those who do not know how to love but fall in love and then change the other so much that he refuses to love.

 What is the reason that most couples who marry for love want their children not to follow this path?  We have to admit that most of us have only heard the name of love, by its requirements